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An often indirect effect, influence, or result that is produced by an event or action. A recoil, rebounding, or reciprocal motion after impact. Source
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An unacceptable deed.
Guys, please never ever cheat on your girlfriend/ partner/ wife.
By cheating, I mean going out with another girl, flirting with her, holding her hands as though no one is watching, kissing her, when you are still in a relationship with a girl of more than a year.
Even if you're honest after she's found out that you've been cheating, it's too late.
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Girls, please never ever seduce another guy who's already in a relationship and you know it.
By seducing, I mean, "being there" for him when he talks to you about his problems with his girlfriend. Hanging out with him whenever you can and encourage him to have that secret affair with you.
Even if you think what you did is not wrong, but your "generous actions" would cause serious long lasting damage to others. Damage to others who did no harm to you.
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No matter how hard I've tried convincing myself that it's okay and that things will get better eventually, it's not working. I'm just as selfish as everyone else. I can't forgive. I've come to realised that I can't be fully happy with the after shock of betrayal.
Will the actions of the cheating ghosts ever leave me alone?
I'm screwed up in the head, and the fear that I'm living in is consuming me from the inside. I'm living in the consequences of someone else's selfishness. I had lost my beliefs, and now I'm desperately trying to redefine myself again.
Where can I seek help?
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1 comment:
I think forgiving is the only way...although it may be hard, it's the only way to free yourself. Forgive and forget...
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