Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Honesty

Effective Communication

Acceptance
Belief
Congruence

What are the barriers to creating Trust?
When Trust exists, what are the outcomes?

Why we do what we do?
"Do unto others as they want to be done unto"

No one is to judge what is right or wrong until it is done.

Bits of questions and quotes from the workshop today
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Interesting how the universe is communicating with me. Attended a training workshop today at work about Effective Communication. The first topic that was discussed was Trust. All the words which I've mentioned long before. Words and actions that we ought to do and say.

The speaker posed a question to all of us,
"Is there anyone in our lives that we trust 100% completely?"

My answer, there was.

I realised how much the past had affected me, why it had affected me so much. It was because how much trust I placed in the one person. I guessed how much pressure there was. But then again, trust had to be built from the start. It took me two years to trust someone completely, and got it shattered. Just like that.

I won't say I will have a fear of trusting people from now on. It's more of a fear of letting myself to be vulnerable again. Trust will always be given to people, it is what they decide to do with it.

There will always be people who choose to betray trust.
It is them who has to live with the guilt for the rest of their lives,
knowing what they did.
And it those around them, who cared for them, to bear the consequences.

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Is telling a white lie, a lie?
What if you're lying because it's for the better?
What if you lied so many times that it becomes a fact?

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